GetOffTheBench

I have claimed repeatedly that the super majority of Parental Alienation is caused by system dysfunction. Some people disagree, but so far all who have joined us on Get Off The Bench on seem to have come to a similar conclusion. Those that disagree slowly are coming around and understanding that their ex-spouses are merely participating in a system that allows parental alienation to exist and encourages two parents to continue fighting against each other for money, children, and property as the final prize. Invites were sent out to numerous leaders and we were joined with a very lively chat board discussing the topic of Parental Alienation.

In addition, we had a surprise guest from Wisconsin. Pamela Wright of the Alliance for Single Parents joined us to discuss Parental Alienation and is quoted as saying... "I think if the system wasn't setup the way that it is that parental alienation would not even by an issue." She comes in around 40 minutes into the show with a thorough discussion on the topic and several other commentators joined us until the end of the show. Her experience and understanding of parental alienation is an invaluable addition to the show.

We also covered differentiating parental alienation from child abuse/neglect as covered by Richard Gardner in 1999. Many people have tried to mesh Parental Alienation as Child Abuse, while Gardner clearly demonstrates that they are separate. We also explored yahoo group behavior and and conformity versus non-conformity in getting to the truth and facts. Sometimes people are following and being encouraged to fight the wrong enemy. See a spiritual lesson for those that share in a similar faith about fighting the wrong enemy below.

You don't want to miss this episode this episode of Get Off The Bench.

We need to respect and protect the parent-child relationship to eliminate parental alienation. The solution is parental rights protection and recognizing that parents are co-equal. Let's work together to make this possible.

Spiritual Lesson Regarding Fighting the Right Enemy.

"For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh. (2 Corinthians 10:3)

Do you know why so many believers are losing the battles in their lives?

They're fighting the wrong enemy!

They've been deceived into believing that just because a person said or did something to hurt them, that person is the one they need to fight.

But they're wrong.

You see, the Bible says we don't wrestle with flesh and blood. And since people are definitely flesh and blood, they're never the source of our problem.

It doesn't matter. If you waste your time fighting So-and-so, your real enemy will get away scot-free.

Who is that real enemy? Look at Ephesians 6:12, "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places."

Trial by Money Host, Robert Neff, joined Get Off The Bench with Lary Holland on Wednesday October 29, 2008. The two had a casual discussion on what just about anyone can do to get involved with reforming the many problems that exist in today's hostile family court environment. Robert Neff discussed his campaign against the retention of one Illinois Judge as well as the a variety of topics ranging from the "End of America" to "Non-Violent Civil Disobedience." Listen today if you missed the live broadcast.

Get Off The Bench airs live every Sunday and Wednesday Night at 8PM Eastern. Free advocacy conference calls are available on Monday evenings, also at 8PM Eastern. Find out what others are doing and learn how you can help reshape our nation's hostile family court system and balance the government's failed policies dealing with our families.

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On Sunday June 1, 2008 Michael and Harriet McManus of Marriage Savers appeared on Get Off The Bench to discuss their Community Marriage Savers Program. Bob Norton, Sunday Night Host of Get Off The Bench led the interview and brought many marriage statistics to the surface. Be sure to use the player above if you missed this great episode of GET OFF THE BENCH!

The duo from Marriage Savers discussed their new book on cohabitation called Living Together: Myths, Risks, and Answers available through our online book store at www.getyourjusticelive.com. Mike and Harriet also discussed their Reform Divorce website resources at www.reformdivorce.org, which aims to eliminate no-fault divorce and make shared parenting a requirement in divorces involving minors.

Barbara C. Johnson appeared on Get Off The Bench, Sunday May 25, 2008, to discuss an ongoing series of cases associated with the Massachusetts Board Bar Overseers. Barbara Johnson is author of www.falseallegations.com as well as a candidate in the 2002 Gubernatorial Campaign in Massachusetts. Many people remember that her candidacy was the only one associated with court reform, removing judicial immunity, as well as having a big red firetruck in the race. Barb Johnson states "we put over 5000 miles on that truck in one month!"

The ongoing court battles between the State Bar (BBO) and Barbara Johnson is chronicled in a series of online postings known as the "Drano Series" at http://www.falseallegations.com. The appropriate court headings are Barb vs. BBO and BBO vs. Barb.

A popular quote comes to mind when I think of Barbara Johnson's campaign against the Judiciary by George Orwell (Author of 1984). In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act. Despite the attacks from the State Bar (BBO) she continues to advocate for court reform as well as reclaim her law license even at today's age of 73!

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On Get Off The Bench: 3/26/2008 Special Report: Congressional Guidelines For Abusing Women? Members of the True Equality Network will be joining Get Off The Bench Host Lary Holland to discuss their recent public report covering the abuse of women in domestic violence shelters. Their press release and report are accessible below. Be sure to tune into Get Off The Bench at 8PM EDT through the website http://www.getyourjusticelive.com or dial directly into the show at 724-444-7444, enter talk cast id: 43507, if prompted for a pin, simply press 1#.

Our public report covering our abuse shelter investigations is getting broad distribution. We have already done the first of nine scheduled shows. Last Friday, March 21st, we were on the “The Chuck Baker Show,” KWYD 1580 AM in Colorado Springs CO along with Dr. Charles E. Corry of the Equal Justice Foundation.

This report is a blunt exposé of how women are being physically and emotionally abused and forced into sexual servitude by shelter workers in order to be permitted to stay in the shelter. This report contains links to candid video testimony by victims of abuse who experienced even greater abuse at the hands of the shelter staff.

The report contains content and links that are not suitable for children and younger teen readers.

A great deal more findings exist than this public version of the report discloses. Those omitted details have been reported to the United States Congress and applicable law enforcement agencies. We have been advised by those agencies and our legal counsel not to disclose the names of the shelters we infiltrated and investigated, which states they are in, or the names of specific individual perpetrators.

Note that VAWA was enacted supported by studies, abet based on false and fabricated statistics, using samples sets of 5 to 15 thousand. There were over 1.5 million TRO’s issued by the states annually prior to VAWA. That is sample sets ranging from .33% to 1.00% of the cases.

There are approximately 18,000 shelters in the US, we investigated 417 of them to date, and that is 2.31% of them. By years end we will have completed the investigation, which will have then infiltrated and investigated 1,200 shelters or 6.67% of them. Even at one third of the way completed, our investigation is already using a sample set twice of what the largest study VAWA used to justify spending billions of tax-dollars to abuse and rape women.

Our women either paid the per diem charges to stay at the shelter as residents or donated the equivalent amount under fake names to the shelter where they stayed. The True Equality women who were employed at the shelters donated their entire paycheck (under fake names) adding the funds needed to equal their gross pay from the shelter. Thus, we did not use once cent of tax dollars to conduct this investigation.

Although we thank the major corporations and individuals for their generous donations to the shelters, we must warn them that unknown to them they are helping to fund the abuse and rape of women. We advise them to look closely at what their generosity is being used for, noting our investigation reveals that many of the shelters are doing anything but protecting women from abuse, providing training and helping them escape from eternal victimhood. In fact, many of the women we interviewed during this investigation returned to their abusive relationships because they felt safer there. As example one women conveyed to us that, "At least while I was at home the neighbors could hear me screaming. Here, even the social workers are abusing me."

The message women are getting from the shelter's staffs is;

New Episode of Get Off The Bench at www.getyourjusticelive.com Wednesday March 12, 2008!

UPDATE!

Episode 67: Everything You Needed To Know

Episode 69: Everything You Needed To Know Part 2

Due to great success, we are repeating and expanding the March 6, 2008 show, on Wednesday March 12, 2008 at 8:00pm Eastern, with an even larger number of National Board Directors from the United Civil Rights Councils of America available to answer your questions.

Also expected: Dr. Frederick Graves and, maybe even one or two others by then: http://unitedcivilrights.org/ UCRCoA_Board. html

Come UNITE with many other like-minded people, Wednesday at 8:00pm Eastern, as the UCRCoA National Board Directors will gather together to open your ears, by providing detailed plans and information for several large and exciting national events this year under the combined family/parents rights and due process rights movement, and now scheduled for an entire series of building-block dates, progressing throughout this coming Spring, Summer, and Fall:Last Thursday's "special edition" show -- all about UCRCoA -- was joined by a handful of the National Board Directors dropping by, even on very short notice, which helped to generate a LOT of public interest, traffic, etc...

A sizable number of people were hooked in by phones and computers, from all across the entire country, and we had a number of great questions from the general audience (often asked by various UCRCoA state and county leaders who had also joined in the call/show). The extra momentum also helped also carry through into Ron and Robin's show immediately following thereafter.

Since the show was such a great success, with lots of people following through (which is the movement's need...), we decided on the fly to just do it again on March 12, 2008 Wednesday evening, at 8pm EST, and you are all invited to encourage other people to join in, see what all the buzz is about, and to help ask questions for the benefit of bashful others listening, who are also wanting to understand better. You may also listen here to last night's very successful involvement of people coming together: http://www.talkshoe .com/tc/43507 (Episode 67, Thursday, March 6th, 2008)

Please plan to participate in next Wednesday evening's continuation show on all about UCRCoA, where we will provide more information on so many things happening, and field and answer questions from the audience throughout. Thanks again for helping bring the movement together! We are ... UNITED!